The pond is full of frogs...

...but I'm alone on a Friday night.

Actually, it's a funny story. I'd set up a date with Cartman for tonight. However, Snake Charmer texted me this morning and asked if we were still on for tonight. What?! Did I mess up and double book myself? Yikes!

After some careful research (I do archive all of my online conversations...yes, I know..that's a smart thing to do!), I realized that I did not set up anything with Snake Charmer. So I texted him back and said, sorry darling, but we didn't set a date, but if you would like Saturday or Sunday night, that's great with me. He said he would get back to me...Sunday looked good, but he wasn't certain.

So then, Frog #1, the Original Frog called. He had been MIA for two weeks while his son was in town. He wanted to get together...would Sunday night work? I told him I was going to be in and out on Sunday, but I'd let him know. Great.

Then Cartman called. Guess what? His daughter has strep...and he wasn't feeling so hot himself. Could he rain check for possibly Sunday night? I told him we'd see how he was feeling and go from there.

Ever the opportunist...I called back Snake Charmer. "Hey Snake Charmer! My plans were cancelled due to illness. Do you still wanna go out?" He'd already made other plans...and again he would let me know about Sunday.

So, if you're keeping a tally, it goes something like this:

Beginning of the day: 2 dates
End of the day: 0 dates
Possibilities for Sunday: 3 dates
Christmas gift for Sara: Erasers and white out for my planner.

It Worked!

My Z--pack worked. I am feeling much better. I almost forget what it's like to have energy.
Frog updates: Have been going out a lot with Snake Charmer and Cartman. They are both nice in their own way. I enjoy time with both of them. Since I can't make up my mind, I figured I'd try another frog...who I will be having lunch with Thursday.
I'll keep you posted about how that one goes.

Modern Medicine?

So, my mono test came back negative. Strep test came back negative. They have no idea what I might have. So, they gave me a z-pack and here's hoping that does it....I certainly don't want to entertain the thoughts that it's anything more than what an antibiotic can take care of!

In Everything, Give Thanks

So, I'm driving around the outer belt this morning, and I notice a license plate that says:

H8 SNOW

I chuckled to myself while at the same time thinking, why do you live in Ohio then? My thoughts immediately turned to a green Ford Taurus I often see while driving on 23in Marion. The owner has taken window paint, and in big block letters, wrote all over the back window:

Jesu Christo Perdona Me

In a world full of political correctness and innuendo, it's nice to receive a clear message. I have no doubt that the lady with the vanity plate hates snow. I have no doubt that the man in the Taurus wants forgiveness from his Saviour.
Today, this was part of my devotion:

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.
Colossians 3:15

I sincerely hope that my life sends the message of thankfulness that I have. Thankfulness for my Creator, my friends and family, my health, my citizenship and certainly, my dog. In fact....maybe I'll get a vanity plate so that my message can be easily understood by others:

GR8 FUL

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

Q: What happens if you kiss too many frogs?

A: You get mono. Seriously. Apparently, that's what my doctors think I have. Test results should be in later this week....

I haven't posted about frogs lately, so let me catch you up:

Frog#6: Jojo the monkey boy (aka JJTMB). JJTMB used to be an engineer for the Navy. Now he teaches math for Columbus public and Ohio Dominican. He's the oldest of three boys, grew up on a farm outside of Toledo and is Catholic. Went out once...he says he would like to go out again, but our schedules are chaotic and don't seem to match up. Interesting note...he put an offer on a house on my street, but ended up buying elsewhere.

Frog#7: Rusty Bucket. Transplant from the great state of West Virgina, Rusty Bucket is a truck driver for Honda. He's a single dad who mentioned on our date that he was bi-curious. He asked if that was a problem. Ummm.....yeah. That's pretty much a deal breaker right there. He still writes once in a while, to see if he can create a "spark" with me. I'm apparently too nice when I say no.

Frog#8: Cartman. A true geek in every sense of the word. The man owns a genuine light sabre. His house has two bookcases in it...one full of science fiction books, another full of toys for his daughter, whom he has on the week-ends. Cartman is truly a sweet, kind man. We've been out several times. He was the first to bring food when he heard I was sick.

Frog#9: Snake Charmer. A docent at the zoo, this guy volunteers to hold the snakes while kids pet them. He also is involved with greyhound rescue and owns two greyhounds himself. He also has a 10 foot python named Matilda. Snake Charmer is also a national pistol shooting champion and runs a couple of leagues here in the central Ohio area. This guy has had a really rough life. From those circumstances, Snake Charmer has decided that God doesn't exist. Although I get along with Snake Charmer, I sometimes wonder if this is more of a missionary endeavor for me.

Frog#10: Dr. Ross. Remember when ER first started, and it was really good and George Clooney played Dr. Ross? Yeah. I met his younger twin. This guy looks a lot like Dr. Ross, except he has light green eyes instead of brown. We were chatting one day online and discovered that we live two streets apart. He invited me over for a drink. He has a gorgeous house on the river. The entire back of the house is floor to ceiling windows that over look his boat slip. He also has an adorable American Bulldog named Bailey. Dr. Ross "writes code" for computers and has several rental properties. He also is a pothead. So, he's just fun to look at. Ahhh...

And that brings you up to date on the frogs I've actually met. There are several waiting in the wings though.....until next time!

Why I love "Dancing With the Stars"

Instant Pick-Me Up

Often times, I'm unmotivated. I don't want to go anywhere or see anyone. The thought of tackling another project makes me sick to my tummy. I let myself think that a nap, or some time in front of the TV would be the perfect way to rejuvenate. Oh, the lies we tell ourselves and are willing to believe....

Actually, the best way I've found to get motivated is to get up off your lazy rear and do something -- FOR SOMEONE ELSE. When you give to others, you get so much more in return. This shouldn't be a surprise -- this is part of the core of Christianity...the heart of Jesus' teaching...love one another, as I have first loved you.

So, if you find yourself a little down today, and need to give to someone for an instant pick-me up, check out this site hosted by Xerox. You can personalize a card to be sent to someone serving abroad in our military. It only takes a moment, and it doesn't cost a thing. But, you get to give your gratitude to these men and women who are risking their lives, so that others may enjoy the freedoms we take for granted here.

I don't know about you, but I certainly have a bit more energy!